I thought i may be through with this venue fearing that I had nothing new to share and afraid that it was unhealthy, the thoughts and processes I was going through.
oh well...
Tonight i watched my young son's face as he slept. As usual I was overcome with joy in the miracle of his health and a bit of fear that I couldn't always keep him from harm. I also felt a wave of sadness as I thought of the beauty in his and his sister's faces and how I wonder how the faces of the twins would have looked as they grew.
I miss them so very much.
I finally went to a park yesterday and today. I have been uncomfortable in the thought of going but I knew the kids would enjoy the time. They did and yes I was also uncomfortable. I feel such a longing and sadness when i see families with more children than i have. My imagination turns to thinking of how the twins would have looked beside their brother and sister in the park, playing and exploring life.
I miss them so very much.
Sometimes I think of what I would be doing now if my pregnancy would have lasted to full term. I wonder if the body has some imprint that it 'should' be pregnant right now. I would have been resting a lot most likely being big with the twins. I would have counted and folded new and old receiving blankets remembering their stories of my other children and thinking about the new stories they would hold. I would have had my old trusty white wire shelves full of diapers and blankets because really that is all you need to get started with the little ones.
I see my family and am filled with gratitude.
I see my family and something seems missing. We seem like such a smaller unit than we should be.
I see my family. I remember my twin girls. I hurt for the pain Zaria went through in her short earthly life.
I think the pain of losing a child is the greatest pain one can bear. When I think of my deceased father, I miss him. I wish he could have met my husband and my children. I recall all the loving memories of my life with him.
When I think of my lost baby girls I am overcome with grief.
I miss them so very much.
oh well...
Tonight i watched my young son's face as he slept. As usual I was overcome with joy in the miracle of his health and a bit of fear that I couldn't always keep him from harm. I also felt a wave of sadness as I thought of the beauty in his and his sister's faces and how I wonder how the faces of the twins would have looked as they grew.
I miss them so very much.
I finally went to a park yesterday and today. I have been uncomfortable in the thought of going but I knew the kids would enjoy the time. They did and yes I was also uncomfortable. I feel such a longing and sadness when i see families with more children than i have. My imagination turns to thinking of how the twins would have looked beside their brother and sister in the park, playing and exploring life.
I miss them so very much.
Sometimes I think of what I would be doing now if my pregnancy would have lasted to full term. I wonder if the body has some imprint that it 'should' be pregnant right now. I would have been resting a lot most likely being big with the twins. I would have counted and folded new and old receiving blankets remembering their stories of my other children and thinking about the new stories they would hold. I would have had my old trusty white wire shelves full of diapers and blankets because really that is all you need to get started with the little ones.
I see my family and am filled with gratitude.
I see my family and something seems missing. We seem like such a smaller unit than we should be.
I see my family. I remember my twin girls. I hurt for the pain Zaria went through in her short earthly life.
I think the pain of losing a child is the greatest pain one can bear. When I think of my deceased father, I miss him. I wish he could have met my husband and my children. I recall all the loving memories of my life with him.
When I think of my lost baby girls I am overcome with grief.
I miss them so very much.